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Tamara's avatar

Fantastic summation.

Some minor observations:

Given all of the above, with the shift from seeing children from an economic asset to a personal choice (simplifying, I know) men and women have to actually like children. It seems to me that this is absent. Children are often either sentimentalised or seen as a drag on ‘self actualisation’.

Children are perceived as ‘expensive’ - all the paraphernalia that it’s assumed you need for babies, then toddlers - when you need none of it.

The toxification of men, the undermining of the male need to be protectors and providers. Women complaining they can’t find a man with whom they can have children and at the same time demanding that men be more like women.

The rise of dogs as substitute babies - I see that all around me.

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MHP's avatar

It’s literally unsustainable that in order to maintain our current levels of prosperity we have essentially had to transfer a large proportion of the population from having and raising children to wage labour, to the extent the population faces a collapse. Whilst this has produced the most prosperous society in history and has made numerous women’s lives more fulfilling and independent, a declining population traps us in a cycle of ever increasing dependency, which is extremely difficult to pull out of.

Best case scenario, the one that the techno-utopians dream of, and I think most western governments are simply hoping for, is that AI an robotics massively reduce labour demand whilst bio-tech extends healthy working lives into their 70’s. It’s not really a policy, it’s faith in the coming of technological salvation to resolve the problems they are unable to.

One of the most concerning aspects of the demographic crisis is the inability of democracy to enact self correcting mechanisms. Once an older population has established electoral dominance there seems no way to reverse it other than to allow the system to collapse. We’re like a car with the accelerator stuck and the breaks cut. The only way to stop is to slam into a wall. In a similar way, it feels like the only way intergenerational inequality will end is when governments default on their debts and we can no longer pile anymore bills on the next generation and have to start paying for our own care, because no one will vote to make themselves poorer.

If I were to suggests and solution to the problem, i would say that nothing short of making motherhood a paid role would move the dial now but even a modest sum would be hugely expensive and reduce the tax base. Or we could link retirement age to a generations fertility rate, as it really always should have been, because regardless of how much you save, if you have no labour to take over when you retire, you don’t have a feasible retirement plan, other than forcing other people’s children to pay for it or mass migration.

But as I said, no one will vote for these measures, let alone an aging population unwilling to sacrifice their days in the sun, which leaves us back with technological salvation or economic crash as our only options.

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